S*x is a beautiful thing but the aftermath might not always be pleasant.
When you have sex with someone new you have to be careful, you can’t just open your mouth and say anything.
Here are some things you should avoid:
1. CRYING:
Tears of regret will be memorable in a negative way. If she’s crying, she should be crying because the sex was good.
2. “DID YOU CUM?”:
How unsexy it is to ask if your partner climaxed. The feedback is good for your ego, but if you are attentive enough, you should know if they orgasmed.
3. “HOW WAS IT?”:
If it was good, you’ll get rave reviews, if it wasn’t good, buckle down for some really honest and painful feedback.
4. “YOU CAN GO NOW:
When you are not a sex worker, being asked to leave immediately after sex can deflate your self-esteem.
5. NO CUDDLES/ SILENCE:
The sound of silence after sex can’t be a good thing, imagine your partner just rolling over and sleeping after having sex with you.
Maybe if you’ve been together for 10 years and you are both exhausted, but absolute silence is weird.