Does asking a man out imply that the woman is easy, and that the man will look down on her?🤔
Someone(a lady) said,
“If you ask Nigeria guys out, they’ll start thinking something is wrong with you; Maybe you don’t have womb or you’re Mami water”.
A lot of people (men in particular) disagreed including myself. Then I saw a comment from a fellow man; he wrote,
“Alot of men will pretend is normal but at the end they treat those ladies asking them out badly! Some of u comment to get likes but won’t say the real truth. Men don’t appreciate ladies asking them out, they see such ladies as loose girls and go for another ,so is beta not to even accept her proposal than using it on her”.
MY THOUGHTS
I disagree still.
I think it all depends on what the man think of himself. I mean how you think of somebody else who asks you out is a reflection of how you think of yourself. If you think you’re attractive and have a lot to offer then why would you look down on a woman who asked you out?
Though some men believe that a woman who asks a man out is “loose” and should be looked down upon. But the truth is, such men are sexist, with a controlling attitude and a fragile sense of their own masculinity. #MyTake
And you, what’s your take on this?
Nigerian Men Don’t Value/Appreciate When A Lady Ask Them Out First?
Let’s hear from you all
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